I got an email from one of Celly's friends.
This friend's identity is later verified to be a real person whom Moby also knows.
I applaud you for speaking up.
He confirmed that Celly was the author of the poem on the Hate Site, and she showed it to him that night at Wala's.
So, Wendy, Celly and Sandra did arrange to meet up at Wala's that night, and Celly had the poem with her. <-- Coincidence? What they didn't expect was: (A) To run into Blinkymummy at Wala's/Hol V. (B) Wendy would made a mistake while excuting their little plan. *Another email. Shirlyn who sings at Wala's emailed to tell me that she got a few song requests with 'blinky*insert words other than mommy*' that very night at Wala's. Apparently, Agagooga and James Seng put up this entire shady affair on Tomorrow.sg, but was later removed. See Geekazoid's screenshots of Tomorrow.sg.
Someone with access must have deleted it.
The Hate Site owners now admit that that there are 3 of them and they did start the Hate Site for personal bitching purposes.
And claim that they had no intention of publicising it. <-- Is this true?
Celly was already showing her friends the poem and telling them she would get it published.
They could have kept the blog private, i.e. not available for public access.
Seriously, I am sadden by the entire incident.
I merely made 1 comment that I didn't want to be associated with the 3 girls.
And they really went all out (e.g. to flame on their blogs, meet up to discuss and start a hate site etc.) to publicly prove my instincts right.
These are educated and healthy individuals at the ages of 21, 22 and 25.
Why choose to behave like that?
Friday, January 13, 2006
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i thought sandra's only 20? well, no matter... they're just young 'uns. their immaturity shows.
It has all come out now. Nowhere to hide. Just as well XLX took screenshots of the posts. Otherwise, there'd be no evidence if they suddenly delete that site.
Why choose to behave like that? Simple - immaturity and ignorance.
I'm surprised that they even published the submission I made. But yea, what's up with the sudden omission?
Then maybe you should just ignore them completely.
I am sure most readers have the maturity if u choose to keep silent and continue this no more. Seriously, they bitch, you retort, they bitch further, and there will be no ending.
Do not grow to be as bitchy as they are, though your claws are already halfway out.
Still not too late to stop.
I am against Capital punishment but I think XX should be hanged!
She is a disgrace!
Yup, feeling kind of disgusted too, to think some people would go to such length to flame someone they don't even know in real life.
Just show how matured our local blogsphere is.
Pathetic.
almonds&diamonds: BM did not bitch back. She merely listed the facts known to her. The others on the other hand are indeed bitching because their arguments are not based on logic or reason, and are instead crude insults.
If i'm not wrong, BM started this whole bitchfest first by insinuating that the other female bloggers were 'cheap' and 'desperate for fame' by posing free for a magazine - which is also what BM did in the end.
"These are educated and healthy individuals at the ages of 21, 22 and 25."
hey you're 29 if I'm not wrong and you go around shouting Cheebye and acting belligerent towards your female rivals?
Seriously, ALL of you need to grow up.
Women......
Sigh.. I just want to say it is the way it is made.. the whole universe.
The whole world are full of idoits and that would include me. I think he's idoit, prob on the end he think i'm an idoit too. So it just works this way.
Just live life the way it is. Nuthin we say or do can change anything. When we change something, we lose something too. so its a balance that one wants to choose to be in. Cheem?!
haha.. *reverts to nua*
*puffs.. anybody wanna get high?*
+))
hey girl.. you got balls! =P *clap clap*.. i jus think you should stop talking about the 3 wannabes as you're only going to give them the attention they think they deserve..
steve.. why are getting all worked up for?
just accept these ppl for who they are.. xx maybe this this that that.. BM is also this this that that.. you are prob this this that that too.. =))
Nobody gonna change/help anybody here unless they wanna change themselves. so let them be and live and let live.
by the way, i am also this this that that. =)))
*inhale... puffs*
Dunhill lights rawks.. lol
age plays a "BIG" part ma, both 21 and 22 CANNOT think maturely but why a 25 also in this childish act??
of cos they need to "hide" and act "innocent" ma!
haha, very lame! oh, they removed the sidebar showing the three authors now! very (x10) lameness!
i have a print screen of the earlier version (ard 9+am) which sidebar X wasnt edited!
BM...the whole episode is just too hilarious. Imature girls just want to bite back when they think they got bitten. Put photos only mah. Seems like they very free to put so much effort to get back at u. Let's sit back n laugh at them "amusing" themselves. One day can put them in a fish tank...mayb circus ring....Want popcorn n tequila pops?
kai: you are absolutely right. Being humans, we are all this and that, never perfect, but SOME people choose to act self-righteous and like their above all when they're probably equally fucked up inside!
just that they hide it very well behind a cheerful facade and good language.
a few good phrases for everyone to remember:
Judge not, lest you be judged as well.
People living in glass houses should not throw stones.
Before you look at the splinter in another mans eye, remove the bar from yours.
*claps* good for you steve.. am happy for u.. so i guess u are not so worked up anymore eh? =))
but really.. on a totally unrelated side note (pls forgive me) i wonder how really perky perky they are?? hehe.. (nvm me!)
*puffs.. vivid imagination* <-pervert?! lol
but actually u started this 1st, by saying "someting" about them in your blog.
They retaliate in a "smart" way, dats all.
gals!
And if I understand women well enough, BM will milk this issue for all it's worth to totally 'destroy' her female rivals.
Let's wait and see.
me thinks this incident has just made the singapore blogsphere a little more famous (or infamous).
heee.
no matter what ..blinky...we still luv you...those are just kids...kids....
waah, despise xx even more liao.. so evil!
total shame! this more affirm my comment on the previous entry that some people resort to every means to gain fame, popularity and attention.
老天有眼
清者自清
si bo liao, those ppl.
KNN, spoil reputation of like-aged ppl.
BM, doing well so far..but pls dun fall into the same mannerism as those in the new found "BITCHSPHERE" of Sgp.
Miss_Shan : Age dun count for maturity, experience do.
Hashbrown : Immature gals dun bite, but bitches do.
The comments here interest me. So I'm wondering....to refresh this every ten minutes or refresh this every hour? I'll get updated more if it's a ten minute interval, but if it's per hour, I'll get the satisfaction of reading a lot more fresh comments.
Geena mah, jiak pa bo sai pang, bo dai ji chuay dai ji loh.
I seriously don't know how they're going to explain this one away lor.
steve said: "And if I understand women well enough, BM will milk this issue for all it's worth to totally 'destroy' her female rivals. Let's wait and see. "
Hope you're not making a sweeping sexist remark, b'cos some of the brightest women I've known online don't bitch, except about politics and social matters. =)
雨 wrote: "but actually u started this 1st, by saying "someting" about them in your blog.
They retaliate in a "smart" way, dats all."
I won't even call that "smart". Smart means refuting BM on their own blogs without resorting to such despicable means.
They all have their own blogs, so why not post them there? Or are they afraid that people would see them for what they really are--she who accuses others of hypocrisy guilty of the act herself?
And if it was meant as their own little past time, why is it accessible to the public? Xialanxue didn't hack into the blog--he surfed into it. Someone with an IQ of over 148 and the "ultimate expert" on blogging can't claim ignorance on something as simple as this.
And most deplorable of all, why assumed identity of Xialanxue, even if it's done out of "fun"?
It's hard to see how people are still defending them (esp Wendy, since she apparently wrote most of the entries), when they've shown to be very sort of person people they claim to detest most.
If that's not hypocrisy, I don't know what is.
They remove the poem
=(
I suspect steve is XX in disguise. Doing the reverse psychology thingy in the hope that BM will let them off easily.
Fat hope! Now then shit in your pants too late liao... flame ppl that time si bei siong hor?
And they're all above legal age to be at the defendant stands in a courtroom.
Shouldn't let them off till they each publish formal apologies in the hate blog, Tomorrow.sg and their own blog.
If not, sue them until their skirts drop, get some extra $$$ for the coming CNY lor.
Dats y i wrote smart with "".
They tot they are smart, BUT 聪明反被聪明误。
哈
like hokkien saying: "mai gei kiang"
haha
"Seriously, I am sadden by the entire incident.
I merely made 1 comment that I didn't want to be associated with the 3 girls."
BM, I'm afraid it's not as innocent as you've made it. There were definitely more than 1 comment you've made:
On the turning down of the Maxim shoot -
"Reason for turning down the offer? Coz it's a FOC shoot.... in bikini somemore. They said I would get more hits on my blog in return. Wah lau... I'm not SPG or XX lor!!! Where got pose for free one?!"
Notice your referrence to XX? And then you ate your words and did the Her World shoot for free.
On the Her World shoot -
"Actually, I was very hesitant to do the shoot.
Bcoz I dun really want to be associated with the 3 of them.
To me, they are the same. You read one, you read them all."
Waving them all off as just the same is just disrespectful to 3 different individuals, not to mention sound all uppity over them.
"But I made it clear that I will not show flesh. Legs can, but no breasts and shite.
But I know someone will be showing breasts again lah!! <-- Why do you think I am hesitant about being associated with them?!!"
You didn't specify who you were insinuating at, but clearly, that's quite a cheap shot at 1 of the 3 bloggers, however unintented, isn't it?
"After SillyCelly arrived, for the HS thought she was Sandra-something?!!!
You see?!!!
The pics these pple put on their blogs are so different from what they look like in flesh!!"
If the HS mistakes them, it's his or her own mis-judgement. To pin that mistake onto the girls looking different from their pictures is again, a cheap shot on your end.
And further, you hollared at XX with vulgarity in public, and lectured SillyCelly in Wala. Surely, all these is more than just one comment?
The hate site is a juvenile shot at getting back at you, obviously. But do remember it was never unprovoked. They just lack the sophiscation to engage you productively. As saddened as you are by this incident, do note that you have contributed to it as much as they did.
BM, I respect that you have joined the civil service to contribute to the community, and I know you have your head in the right places.
But quoting your 11 Dec 03 post "I wish more people could understand love and respect. "
Clap clap to captain.
haha
Like i said, miss BM started all these and they just retaliate.
If no such remarks were written, all these might not happen?!
And about not publicizing it... but you did PUBLISHED IT! STUPIDO!
If you want to keep it between the 3 of you, then don't even publish it lah! Since you did, you're liable.
Wah lau ay! Stop your desperate lies liau, want to protect yourself also not like that one lah... cover the ass and ends up expose your CB instead?
As for not using the real name... hmmm... smart of you to do that...
NAY!!! You dumbos got no brain at all... if have you wouldn't post the real picture!
HAWawawawaw! Why like that? Cum gong lah! You can create 101 sites using the name BLINKYMUMMY and claims that you're referring to them and not our BM... but with the photo up... how you gonna wriggles out of it?
Scare already right, don't panic, use your brain before carry on smearing the shit all over instead of wiping it. Opss… sorry, I forgotten you girls have no brain.
BM,
What they did was childish but if you really made those comments alleged by captain, then I think that it stands to reason that they would have been offended.
I guess that it's true that there's always two sides to the story.
"The hate site is a juvenile shot at getting back at you, obviously. But do remember it was never unprovoked."
Of course, I don't think the issue here is the denial that it was provoked.
The problem is that if they want to make a anti-BM site, might as well be upfront about it, and put their real names on it. Not all that bullshit that they did not start the blog.
Again, the big difference between their 'cyber' and 'real' aspects of their lives.
Cheebye Xiaxue.
Don't worry BM, we support you all the way.
Alot of people anti XX in EDMW at hardwarezone forum.
Its like Days of our lifes.. cept it's in the internet...
"Now showing in new techni color!"
woo weee... *puffs*
Yupz...totally agree~! There s nothing wrong if they want to set up a hate site again Blinkymummy or anyone else. But don't they even have the balls to use their own name? WHy so hypocritical about it? Dare to do then admit don't hide behind anyone skirt (ermm...nickname) k?
Whatever BM might have said, it still doesn't excuse them for the Xialanxue bit.
Imagine if someone did that to Wendy, she'd be screaming for his/her head by now.... not that I'm giving anyone here ideas. =)
"Of course, I don't think the issue here is the denial that it was provoked."
Merv, that wasn't the issue I was referring to either. I was referring to BM's innocent-sounding assertation that she "merely made 1 comment" (which resulted in the girls retaliation in a heavy manner to just that 1 comment), which is untrue, and reflected the girls in a bad light. Given, BM might have not intended her comments to be offensive, but the protagonist she has referred to felt otherwise.
scorkes, my quotes were not "alleged"; they were taken from BM's blog, unless she takes them down. But I have faith in BM that she is a lady who stands up for what she says, and probably will admit to mistakes if she feels she is in the wrong, so I don't think she'll take her comments down either.
Simplesandra, the site is definitely in bad taste. In fact, any hate site is usually in bad taste. They are just trying to make XLX jump by impersonating him. Come to think about it, it's pretty funny.
bitch..to think u anyhow accuse other pple. Get your bloody facts right before u talk.
made a big fool of yourself big time yeah?
Wah lau... to think that when I read about Sillycelly and Sandra complaining about not having boyfriends I actually felt sorry for them...
What I don't get is this:
- If it's suppose to be a private bitching session and only for the 3 of them to know it, fine. Turn on the Private function that requires log-ins.
Hell, you can have 20 million members and it'd still be private. But once you put it out in the open, it's no longer private. It is now in the public domain and is liable. Why open yourself to that kind of risk/liability?
- If you meant to impersonate another blogger as a joke, it's not really funny. It's identity thief.
How would you feel if someone used your alias to promote something you absolute disagree with? worse yet, to gain something out of it? You wouldn't like it, I'm sure. Yes, it's not like an online alias is the property of the real xlx. But hey, I guess I can go create a few websites and call myself XX or any of the other girls. Go get more endorsements and monetary gains. You won't get a single cent. THEN tarnish the hell out of it... 2 weeks later just say something along the lines of "Impersonating him? Christ, you people are so very dumb. How the hell is it plausible that Xialanxue is the writer? Everyone already knows he likes BM. The fact we said made one of our authors him is simply because it is ironic (and therefore, funny)." That's just a silly immature excuse. It just doesn't hold water.
- Why the hell are Sandra and Celly associated with what is CLEARLY a XX behaviour? Seems like you're totally influenced by her.
Look, to see if coming from XX, I think most people here can expect it. But from the both of you? What is the hell!!!??? You've already retort on your own blog. You've already made your come-back. Why carry on and create a hate-site that's published in the public (if it's private, go ahead. No issue)? You've already let it go on your own blog. It's totally not like either of you (if you go by your past archived entries). Then again, maybe it is your style in RL. I don't know. What I do know is how BM behaves online is how she behaves in RL. Whether or not we all agree with some of her behave is up to us to accept or not.
- WTF??? "Remember, you guys are the ones who made it a hatesite.
Aye, great weather."
We made it a hatesite??? WTF??? someone explain this one to me cus it's WAY WAY WAY F-ing over my head. Great weather??? nice.. end it as if you don't care much for it. "oh, it's done. we're prefect. we're not at fault. you guys made it as such. hey! look.. birdie.. do i look pretty..?" F lah!
I'm not a BM-Super-Fan. When she cocks up, I tell her. Maybe not always online cus I feel sometimes, when you can do it privately, you should. No need to air dirty laundry. I agree partly with what Captain said. BM is not totally innocent.
But, damn man, to go create this kind of site and then try wriggle your way out of it is just plain stooopid. To steal someone else's ID, publish something in the private, then blame that person for even discovering it (have you thought that maybe xlx is search to see if anyone's bitching bot xlx and therefore would like to know what it is and comment on it? possible...), and then say it's all a joke and we're too stupid to understand that? HARLOW!!! wah, I feel damn insulted lor.
Oi XX, I'll be back after CNY. Please.. please explain to me in person how stooopid I am. WTF...
And as for the other 2 girls, I don't know what to make of things. Hell, since the two of you are contributors to that site, maybe you should post something up in your own words so that we won't keep thinking it's only XX doing all the talking. I'm sure you girls have a mind of your own. A personality of your own. A view on how things stand on your own. A life of your own.
*damn pissed at being insulted*
ALLOOOOOO.......
SHALL EVERYONE INVOLVED JUST CHILL and COOL OFF FOR AWHILE.....??
THere is enough war and strife, disasters in the world out there today....
So much fighting, racism, discrimination, genocide/ethinic cleansing, massacres, terrorism, civil war... right now happening in the world from Rawanda to Palestine to Thailand to Chechnya....
Even as we speak, squabble, email and blog, there are thousands of people dying in the mountains of Pakistan from the cold weather, children without food and shelter.... people in Eastern coast of the US trying to rebuild their lives.... people being killed and murdered simply because they were born of a different color...
and here we are squabbling over cyberspace and setting up hatesites to moan and bitch about one another? everything sounds really petty and trivial when put in perspective with real world issues.
Life is too good in singapore ah?
The fact that BM, XX, et al can go take photo shoots for a lifestyle magazine, go party at Wala's at 3am in the morning, smoke and drink as they like, shows how good life in Singapore is... The education they had, the safety of being able to party until the whole night long and go home as and when they like.... all taken for granted, and using their literacy to blog and bitch about each other when there are women in Afganistan right now who dont even know how to read or write, and who just a few short years ago would have been whipped just for going to find a job?....
As a famous Messiah once said to a bunch of gentiles who wanted to stone a prostitute: "Let those without sin cast the first stone..." and the people walked away in shame, and the prostitute was spared the stoning.
COME ON PEOPLE - FORGIVE each other. PEACE! forget it. life is already tough enough as it is... there are more meaningful things in life than to point out to one another who is right or wrong when it takes 2 hands to clap..
Right on, Sumo.
sumo: dude... yeah, there are enough out there to make me sad. But hey, I've been contributing to help in those diasters. Now something hits closer to home, let me help too.
In this case, help as to educate that little xx girl about responsibility. One must know that for every action, there is a reaction. Be it good or bad. In this case, it's bad. You can't go through life thinking you can get away with everything by giving silly excuses.
How do we make the world a better place? By improving ourselves and those around us. Maybe that would prevent the wars and strifes you've mentioned. Learn to be responsible and accept the consequences of your actions. Plain and simple, sumo.
Cool down I will in time. But stoopidity like that is not acceptable. It'd be like asking me to accept the fact that the Afghan women can be whipped, or racism to continue, or terrorist allowed to flourish. Start fixing things from home and work outsides in your own society before expecting things to be alright.
One must know that for every action, there is a reaction.
Yes, Jeremy. BM insulted XX. XX goes and put up a hatesite about BM. BM goes and finds out about the hatesite, and causes support for XX to go down. Isn't that enough? What more does anyone want? To hang XX?
Jeremy - XX has her faults. BM is no angel either.
"One must know that for every action, there is a reaction. Be it good or bad."
That is why the US invaded IRAQ. That is why Isreal and Palestine are still in conflict after so many thousands of years etc etc.
The intentions may stem out of self righteousness, for vengence, or for justice or whatever. But for every conflict, there will be suffering.
And as long as there is retaliation, the cycle of violence and conflict will not end.
This is not physics la, this is human relationship. There NEED NOT be a reaction, if one party holds back.
Nobody is ever 100% right. BM is not perfect. Neither is XX. Perhaps a solution is if they were to talk it out instead of thrashing each other on their own websites, i am sure the misunderstanding can be resolved, or at least a truce.
but if both parties do not make the first move at reconciliation, are too proud and do not want to resolve, this underlying enmity will always be there. it doesnt serve any of the parties involved any purpose.
and the fanboys who cheer them on (both BM and XX supporters).... can be likened to those spectators who cheer boxers in a ring.. .. or those plebians in ancient Rome cheering the gladiators on to spill blood and gore.... go on! fight fight fight! for entertainment? but they dont get their hands dirty..
XX is not going to change by you blogging and penning some words here.
Sumo sumo: Well said! Bravo ... ...
BM doesn't use demeaning words like those 3 bloggers did. everytime XX wants to insult someone, it always involves vulgarities and horrible adjectives.
at least BM doesn't cheapen herself.
XX is a publicity whore and she totally admits it. goodness. maxim,tnp,whatever, she clearly wants to be in the limelight and even debating about her gives her a rush cos she's getting exactly what she wants : attention.
Sumo: You're ABSOLUTELY right. BM is no angel either. But I choose the lesser of two evils for now.
I won't even go into the rest of your comments bot the Isrealis and Americans. Totally different subject and issue. (though very very interesting... social-political debates are always fun).
And I do agree, if only they can meet up and talk it out. I wanna be there when it happens.
heehee.. it'd be something to see. I think I can set up a mud-ring at my place when I get back. A couple of bleechers. The hot-dog stand from Zouk... No cover-charge of course...
BM, I like you. I don't agree with some of your thoughts or viewpoints, nor am I very impressed with your writings and theories. However, you're a nice enough, sincere and intelligent woman and I enjoy reading your accounts of amusing and interesing incidents and thoughts. And you really do remind me of a special someone, so I'm rather partial to you.
That being said, your handling of this farce is rather...lacking. I had expected more restrain, cool headedness and maturity from you. It is to your credit that you have not participated in the crass mud slinging, but your innuendos and forced indifference hardly enhance your image. Think about it - how does these actions and retalitations disguised as "factual accounts" benefit you in any way whatsoever? All it shows is your lack of self restrain and vulnerability to provocation.
You are of a different world from the 3 loud, crass and shameless "bloggers". But by engaging in this churlish game of tit and tat, you have inadvertently lowered yourself to their level, allowed, nay, invited them to pull you down to their playgroud of mud and tar, and tainted yourself with the same brush as theirs.
And the biggest irony of it all is your initial desire to not be associated with them (re the Her World photo shoot incident)! Yet what were you trying to prove ot do by publicly talking about it? It is hardly smart to deliberately make enemies and provocate others needlessly.
BM, I can tell you all these without holding back because we do not know each other, and we are both faceless entities (well, maybe not you). I would hate to see you join the legions of crude and boorish female bloggers. So, let them dig their own graves, go on with your life, and rise above this fiasco. You are better than this, you know that.
All the best and cheers :) Gong Xi Fa Cai in advance :)
I feel BM though intelligent, but still not emotionally stable enough to withstand such intangible cyber blows....
the fight between the girls, though interesting, shows also 1 thing.....
Not steady enough.
EQ not high enough, simply put....
instead channelling your energy in proving who's right or wrong, why not use it to do more worthwhile stuffs?
i'm sure your life is not only this blog right?
*sigh* looks like someone called in the UN to calm things down...
cheebye you got shout cheebye or not? knn use umbrella somemore! last time lim peh gang fight hammer those kapo toads holding umbrella cheebye
Hmm... It's akin to being caught redhanded stealing then darningly have the cheek to cough out excuses like he/she's going to pay for it actually lar, it was meant to be a joke lar, etc. Haiz... Diu Lian.
Jeremy ==> M.I.B was in, Now U.N was in. Maybe by the time we know it LKY step in and say something like what he did to the Alpha-S.
Haha.
Sandra's Response
Then why swear at xiaxue in public? To prove you have absolutely no manners?
why insult celly in front of people?
仗势欺人 is what you did. You attacked them when they were alone and without help while you had your whole entourage of men behind you.
you are so low.
gstrings: Err... there was only Moby, i think. Not the whole entourage of men.
Celly had her grp of men too, no? While I think celly handled the matter well at Wala, but then a hate-site pops up the next min... What do you consider that? I dunno.
To be fair, the woman was intoxicated at Wala's according to the blog... BM was drinking since 5pm at Holland V.... so swearing and being rude in public - well ... up all decide...
Anyway after having read other points of view, including Sandra's response (see above entry from Lupin).... we can empathise with both sides.
I mean, this current episode appears to have started with an uprovoked attack on sillycelly, since it was BM's friends who called her over to their table...
Imagine:
In a pub, someone out of the blue call you over to their table. and when you go over, a drunk person starts telling you that when u are their age, you cld look like them, you shld be fucking glad..... quite nasty right? and its one whole bunch of people sitting there looking at you, and you are standing "sillily" getting insulted......
and BM justified it cos she was insulted on SC's blog, and wants to bring it up close and personal, face to face in the real world...
BM calls it cowardice when SC didnt say anything to her face. (" She has the guts to write something about me in her blog, but she doesn't dare to say it in my face. ")
So i presume then, if SC retaliated by calling her names in public, it would be considered as being brave?
And then what next? cat fight?
and then insult one another again on the blog? start hate site (alerady happened, assuming it was started by XX, SC and gang)
and then see each other fight again?
whats the sense in all this....?
Like i said before, PEACE everyone! forgive and forget - cliche but relevant.
because you started all the crap first?
razzleddazzled:
BM doesn't use demeaning words like those 3 bloggers did. everytime XX wants to insult someone, it always involves vulgarities and horrible adjectives.
at least BM doesn't cheapen herself.
XX is a publicity whore and she totally admits it. goodness. maxim,tnp,whatever, she clearly wants to be in the limelight and even debating about her gives her a rush cos she's getting exactly what she wants : attention.
I am sorry but do you even read BM's blog?
BM is the undisputed queen of vulgarities. She admits it herself.
This case seems like a simple case of attention seeking from BM, not XX. XX is already famous/infamous (whatever).
Allow me to present my points:
Who started this catfight? -BM
Who started the entry of saying XX is racist AGAIN when the whole issue seemed to simmer down? (roll my eyes) -BM
Who goes on and on about how XX is a racist by reading between the really fine lines? -BM
Who goes to Wala and trying to pick a fight with Silly Celly (It seems to me BM is being really rude and obnoxious, not brave as she claimed)? -BM
Who curse and sweared at XX when XX ignored her on the street? (I don't suppose XX should give her a big bear hug after all these) -BM
Who went to publicise about her own hatesite and sounding pleased about getting her own personal hatesite? -BM
Who sounded as if she has struck gold when she discovered XX is the one blogging about her on weloveblinkymummy's blog? -BM
As we can all see, BM's blog entry is not really that interesting these days. Other than those entries that rides on the fame of XX, her entries are boring!!!
YES! Who cares about the library talk? Who cares about the possibility room?
*yawns*
There aren't that many comments either. Only 2 or 3 of BM's ardent fans responsed.
So I guess BM must have been so excited when she learnt of the true identity of XLX in her hatesite.
Afterall, bad publicity is better than no publicity. *shrugs*
BM is already 30, as compared to the rest. She certainly do not behave like a mature public servant who proclaimed having the passion to serve the public. I have seen her in action in Wala before. Totally attention-seeking!!!
BTW, if I look like BM when I am 30, I will kill myself.
She is so chao lau!
If I think and behave like a chao ah lian as BM when I am 30, kill me please!
so bm really said,
"Wah, ACT BLUR AH, XIAXUE, CHEEBYE!"
ahahah...
At least this chao ah lian is willing to face things upfront and admits that she has said all those vulgarities. Unlike someone who uses underhanded method of trying to use someone's hand to kill her enemy. If it goes well, it will incite the hatred among her two enemies. What a cunning plan to kill two birds with one stone. Too bad, this plan was full of loop holes that it makes me wonder did she score her IQ test by pure luck?
1) You said you were proud/honoured about that hate site, so why are you complaining now?
2) A tit for a tat. Since you're capable of acting the way you did at Wala that night (ie, uncivilised), what makes you think you, a 29 yr old can act that way but not "educated and healthy individuals at the ages of 21, 22 and 25"? All of you are behaving the same way, ie immatured.
I say everyone should get over it. :)
emiryo: yea, sure I'm XX, just like how everyone giving 2 sides of the issue here is actually XX in disguise.
And don't think I don't know, but you are actually BM in disguise.
In fact, this whole comments box is filled only with the multiple disguises of BM & XX.
*rolls eyes*
Hmm... babes and dudes, anyone knows what destroyed Troy? Haiz...
Simplesandra you said:
"Hope you're not making a sweeping sexist remark, b'cos some of the brightest women I've known online don't bitch, except about politics and social matters. =) "
NOT the women involved in this debacle!
i think i abit the slow in responding to all the above remarks.. but i gotta ask: Har?! The girls don't really look like their pictures when seen in real life?!
Hai.. Quite disappointed now.. all of them 'are' quite pretty =(..
Blinkymummy.. though i really like you and respect you, i think u really did start this whole fiasco of 'superficial' attention-seeking craparoonee...
As i said earlier on.. just get on with this entire thingee and talk about more interesting and exciting events.. eg.. flourescent pigs.. how hilarious is that..
green bak kua for CNY anyone?
The hate site is totally stupid...
Xx blogged recently abt the life of hate site owners and something like that huh?? I wonder what's that suppose to mean uh??? How does she know abt the life of hatesite owners huh?? Unless she happen to know a few.... Whatever.. *roll eyes*
Anyway, BM, i think ya quite pretty and saying u chao lau or attacking your age is totally childish.. Let's see if they can look as good as u when they reach that kinda age... Nowadays, i see lotsa faces on the street looking like 29 when they are only 19...
Ok.. maybe not that bad... Looking 25 when ya only 19??
Useless ranting.
Pardon me..
Sumo Sumo is definitely the most enlightened guy in this comments box.
Kudos, dude.
korIn : Trying to stand on a higher moral ground as an original intention. But now being caught posting under the impersonator account 'xialanxue', it only means hypocrisy.
Cheers,
Hou.
girlscarlett,
You're obviously missing the point. We're not defending BM for her actions; if anything, she too has a part in this whole catfight. But what we're disgusted with is not just the childish nature of the hate site, but that someone (all leads point to Wendy) impersonated Xialanxue to attack BM.
That's low. And I still haven't come to the tommorow.sg matter yet.
simplesandra:
May I suggest that you push your personal vendetta at your own blog?
Seriously, you seem unhealthily obsessed with Wendy. Is your life about you, or her?
Does your life really belong to you?
Think abt how you want to live your life.
Will you never attain peace for as long as XX is around?
And that's all I have to say to
you.
Happy New Year all.
i am still not very convinced the hatesite was written by xiaxue, celly and sandra. i see a lot of assumptions, a lot of conjectures. but no definite proof. if someone really dislikes these girls, it is damn easy to frame them. and if they didn't (and i really do think so) write the hatesite, blinky and the rest of you are so screwed for slander.
Hi BM,
Actually what you said to xiaxue that day wasn't very nice and being high on alcohol isn't a very good excuse. But of course, it's very wrong of them to write things that are so mean. Hope you can let this incident pass and learn something from it. You can't make friends with the whole world but you can always do with less enemies. Stay true and we'll still be supporting you.
don't you girls have a job or something. no need to get so puffed up over someone else's arguments.
everything's juz an ego problem. everyone thinks they are the center of attraction. though blogging is for the public to see, shouldnt it be more of own personal lives and views? sticking to it may result in less flaming of each fellow bloggers bah. Peace to all bloggers (".)v
Sumo... Us invade Irag for it's oil... you don't see it attacking many others who deserve to be bomb... coz it's not profitable.
Entertaining? You got it right bro... I cheer them on. Let the blood flow! I've even placed my bets.
I'll like to see this go on till it gets boring... then life will be back in order. But while it's still burning, keep the flame high, make it good.
Actually I like the poem... lol! Why team up with that -ve IQ 1/2bimbo(yeah 1/2 coz she've no breast too). She's just using you girls coz she can't hold her own battle. She'll drag the whole team down.
its obvious that xiaxue IS this fake xialanxue. she admitted it herself. but the choice to change her author "name" and then revert back was a ridiculous mistake. i mean, afterall, it clearly shows that she attempted to attack blinkymummy. and she failed thoroughly.
I used to be a fan of both xiaxue and blinkymummy's. afterall, xiaxue blogged really interestingly and blinkymummy provided me insights about how one should really live. her entries are usually very reflective and it touches many people's hearts, i am sure. including mine. but after this incidence, the only thing that came clear to me was that xiaxue was a fake. she blogged for the sake of blogging and created this "cyber-image" for herself which is totally unlike who she really is. she's a kid, and someone that is just plain jealous. blinkymummy has been frank in her entries and obviously, if i should say, more "intellectual" than those three other wise-cracks.
in case you haven't realised, xiaxue only attacked a female's weak points. statements like hers could make a woman crumble. she attacked blinkymummy's looks and age.(which i am glad to see that blinkymummy was unfazed to all that bitching. you rock) come on. is she some fifteen year old girl like me? i thought only girls my age did stuff like these. puh-lease.
i think blinkymummy looks great. what matters most is that she feels great.
all i want to say is that, blinkymummy, keep that attitude. it only showed how imbecile those three women with mentalities of teenage girls were. you turn a xiaxue fan (me), into someone that now despises her. you made her NOTHING.
now, who rocks?
blinkymummy does.
(:
<3 your fifteen year old girl.
gstrings said...
Then why swear at xiaxue in public? To prove you have absolutely no manners?
why insult celly in front of people?
XX has conducted herself in the way that vulgarities is what she openly accepted since she has returned similar gestures to anyone she doesn't like. So, swearing at her is not to be surprised at nor it is something wrong since she is doing it to others too. If she feels insulted, hurt and gets annoyed at people swearing at her, she should learnt not to swear at others in the first place. I don't think this is something that is difficult to understand for anyone.
XX writes negatively, bitching, using vulgarities on others whom she doesn't even have any association with in real life. Since she is doing this, I would assumed anyone can have any opinions about her and writes on their own blogs.
Maturity doesn't mean letting things rest. Maturity means taking responsiblities of your own actions. You are entitled to your own opinions and standing up for yourself and be true to yourself and others is what maturity is all about. At least, BM doesn't bitch about someone and pretend to be real nice to her in real life. If you dare to speak your mind online, be dare enough to admit it.
仗势欺人 is what you did. You attacked them when they were alone and without help while you had your whole entourage of men behind you.
By confronting face to face, it gives them a chance to react maturely by reacting appropriately on the spot to resolve any conflicts they had. If you think you are right, you won't be fearful of reasoning even if you do not have an army of guys to back you up. Li zi qi zhuang is another chinese idiom which is more appropriate than zhang shi qi ren.
The bunch of self proclaimed non-hypocrites, non-shu nu, out spoken, dare to speak their minds, truth teller, never allow any wimps or losers to get them down, chose to do it behind others back and stealing another identit to say what they want to say. When you can't live up your image mentally and emotionally, leave some rooms for development instead of forcing yourself to be one.
*sigh* this is my last comment on this entry. Y is that you might ask?
Cus I don't believe in beating a dead donkey (ok lah.. sometimes very fun)...
I've stated my views. Tried to educate some ppl (esp those that were not there to witness what happened). Cooled down after being called dumb and expected to be stooopid enough to believe silly little excuses. Pointed out the actual issues being thrown back and forth. Tried to push aside distractive arguments that don't belong here.
All in all, we can see who among those commentators are mature enough to actually see reason, smart enough to see the issues, and willing to accept that BM is not perfect, but far from wrong in this.
So to the rest, I say let it go. You have your believes and blind loyalty (which can be admirable in some cases). Learn from this if you can. and for F sake, GROW THE F UP!!!
"Christ, you people are so very dumb." - XX, http://www.weloveblinkymonkey.blogspot.com/
jeremy: by insinuating that those who dissent with u are 'not mature enough' is a very lazy way of rebuttal, and not the mark of a wise man.
And I believe you can also learn from your last paragraph:
"So to the rest, I say let it go. You have your believes and blind loyalty (which can be admirable in some cases). Learn from this if you can. and for F sake, GROW THE F UP!!!"
Ironic, because it's obvious that your loyalties will lie with BM, as you are real-life friends. I won't go as far as to call u a sycophant- but u are treading the line.
And of cos Jeremy, grow the F up. Engaging in internet arguments and branding opposing pple 'immature' is a tell-tale sign of immaturity.
With that, I end.
You can have the last word.
Blinkymummy, you asked for all this. Don't try to push blame on others.
precisely blinkymummy, you started all these by descriminating them.
If you are a saint, like how you portray yourself in the post, you won't be using vulgurities in the public, right in front of them :)
Isn't a 29 yr old, a lil too old to be acting lianish ?
Did BM started all this? Hmm... I was under the false impression that they all buay song with each others for long long time already...
Didn't follow ALL 4 Blogs since THEY STARTED blogging... so I'm not in the position to say who started what. Anyone who've been doing that please speak up!
St BM? LOL! When did she attain that or even show an incline to attempt it? She’ve been using vulgarities here as well wat?
Hellooooooo... did you even read any of her post before you make such accusations?
Or perhaps you don’t understand any English, Singlish or Chinese vulgarities? Good! Since you don’t understand them, Fucking~nabehcheebye~他妈的 to you then.
But I've to agree that anyone above the legal age should never speak or write in that manner, it’s rude... or to draw obscene picture of others... Man, someone should tell George W. Bush off too, coz he’s freaking old but still swearing a lot...
"...Engaging in internet arguments and branding opposing pple 'immature' is a tell-tale sign of immaturity.
With that, I end.
You can have the last word...."
No need anymore last word steve, you speaken it yourself oready.
So, to my understanding from your reply, showing obscene pictures of others is wrong, but cursing and swearing loudly in a public place is cool ?
and i didn't know you have taken interest in mom's on bed ? My mom will be 60 soon.. and you seeem to have a lil affection over her body ?
geez.. you need help
Ahhh... I see you can understand the words perfectly... so it's you comprehensive ability that's out.
You need help too baby, lets do it!
i highly suspect emiryo is blinkymonkey in disguise, therefore have to resort to posting someone else's boobies online (still pretending self-righteous??) wahaha!
hey this is meant to be a joke ok?? chill... this shall be posted as an opinion, not deemed as a factual information. peace out!
Damn! You know my secret!!
Now I'll have to silence you off too...
how much you want?
Btw Kakashi, I said NaBe not NaBu, His mother not your mother... I stop going after married woman already.
Xia Xue is an uneducated, pathetic, cheapskate and unemployed ah lian, perpetually begging for people to send her invites to parties and events because she failed to get a foot in the media industry, given her depressing standard of English and lack of qualifications. Thus unsurprising that she harps on her PSLE score as though she's a President's Scholar, because that's the last semblance of a mild achievement in her tragic life.
Since she's jobless she doesn't have money to pay for drinks/cover charge out of her own pocket, poor shit! And has to shop at THIS FASHION, staying true to her ah-lian and impoverished roots.
No wonder she was sacked from her pathetic freelance columnist job in a tabloid paper mostly read by N level holders, and even had to cheek to email the TNP editor to ask why she was sacked. Of course the editor glossed over it with some filmsy excuse. Don't we always say the same spiel to the rejected applicants/dropped freelancers rather than telling them the truth (that they suck?)
At least BM is educated, has a respectable job and doesn't blog nonsense. I'm not surprised she didn't want to be associated with them.
If I understand the whole story, this immature 29yr old started everything. Someone who insulted fellow bloggers, only to copmmit the same "sin" is anything but mature. So stop with the bitching on your own blog first.
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