This evening, 'Good Fren' and I had our New Year's Eve dinner at his favourite restaurant of the moment, i.e. Bistro Petit Salut at Chip Bee Garden.


We like the place coz (i) the food is consistently satisfying, and (ii) the ambience is relaxed.


We had all that was on the New Year Menu.
In general, a very good meal.
The portions are not grotesque, if you know what I mean. The priority is to enjoy the taste, and not fill the stomach.

Exceptional mentions will have to be the LAMB and souffle!


Halfway through dinner, the waitress passed us 2 black bags...


It was a bag full of New Year-sy knick knacks!!


With the mask, you now get to see 'Good Fren's eyes!!
HO HO HO!!!
What a treat eh?!


More than halfway through dinner, about the time we were expecting our cheese, then dessert, my ex walked into the restaurant with his wife!!

Here you can see my ex and his wife in the background, with a well-wishing 'Good Fren' in the foreground.


Bizarre... Hilarious... Hee Hee Hee... =)))
*Just realised something... 31 Dec is this ex's birthday!

The complexity of human relationships never ceases to amaze me.
What's even more stunning is why do people subscribe to modes of relationships which have proven not to work on more than a few occasions.

Isn't that insanity?

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I love to ask newly-wedded couples about their newly-inked marriage.


And the answer is most often than not,


This triggers a huge silent debate in my brain whilst the subjects sit a few metres away, sipping on their beverages.

• "No difference? Then go through all that hassle for what?"
  
• "Maybe they feel the difference, but dunno how to verbalise it?"
• "Maybe the difference is intimate and they dun wanna talk about it"
• "Maybe they are trying to adjust with some teething problems."
• "Maybe they are trying to cut this conversation short coz Blinkymummy is a kaypoh with a blog."
  
• "Maybe... there really isn't any difference?!"
  

I dunno about these couples...
But there is certainly a huge difference before and after 'Good Fren' and I started staying together.

EMOTIONAL DIFFERENCE
We now have more time and space to work out our differences and get ourselves in-sync with each other.
This is a huge step, and enormous amount of effort/energy/patience is required.

PRACTICAL DIFFERENCE
Also, staying together eliminates the need to go home separately after dinner!
I hated that feeling of having to meet up in a hurry after work, spend some time by having dinner together, then rush home to shower and sleep in preparation for the next working day.
Dating is really tiring.

I think the above is more than enough to demonstrate that getting together ought to make a difference.
May not be a long list of differences... Just a couple of significant ones will suffice.

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Eh... What ever happened to the Gay Debate?
Everyone went off for XMAS or something?

Have been reading up on the difference between (A) Marriage and (B) Registered Partnership.
The Scandinavian countries are over-represented in the list of countries/states which have adopted (B).

So what exactly is the difference between (A) and (B)?
A netizen summarises the difference succinctly as follows:

"Marriage is a religious bond between two people as well as a social contract in the eyes of the law.
A civil partnership is just a social contract in the eyes of the law."

Immediate reaction to the above statement is:


Another related thought...
If one studies to the fundamentals of a partnership, it ought to be clear that a partnership is the generic umbrella model of 2 people wanting to spend their time together.
This means the traditional 'marriage', which takes into account religion, law and other people's take on the union etc, is actually a subset of the generic partnership.

What's going on now is that our society (or so says the leaders) is unable to accept the generic partnership, and only accepts a niched form of union, i.e. between man and woman (and a significant portion of time, to be witnessed by God, Law etc).

Think about it.
We reject the generic and insist on only the niche?
It's like ordering Char Kway Teow without Kway Teow.
'Good Fren' says it's more like rejecting plain bread and going for raisin bread. I think not, because in the current situation, they are talking about raisins, and not bread anymore.

While we reject the generic, and insist on the 'better' niche, we ain't doing that well with the latter hor!
In the US, about 1 in 2 marriages ends up in a divorce. In Singapore, I read that it's about 1 in 4 or 5 marriages.
The raisins are obviously not good enough either!

Hmmm... Count the no. of wedding dinners you have gone for this year and extrapolate a little using the abovementioned statistic.
Do include your own wedding, if applicable.

Then imagine the union of 2 people as a precious little being.
Using the current definition of 'marriage', it means the little being is getting itself wrapped in layer and layers of gloss, rules and glitter.
So much that one doesn't see the beauty of the precious little being, because too much time is spent on getting the wrappings right, by studying theoretical and precedent wrappings.
Which layer goes first? Is it arranged according to a hierarchy of colours, size of glitter etc? Is this a competition of stringent adherence to the so-called norm? What will other people think/say?

At times, suffocating the little being in the process.

Oh wait... Then after all that rah rah ruckus, some just say...


HUH?!
I dun get it.

Maybe I take this partnership thing too seriously. =_=

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'Good Fren' made a good theoretical point about the US and Singaporean divorce rates.
While it is instinctive to think that divorces = unhappiness, the US ratio of 1 divorce in 2 marriages may mean that there are possibly fewer unhappy couples hanging onto their failed marriages for whatever crazy reasons.

Now... Doesn't that make you wonder whether the Singaporean ratio of 1 divorce in 4-5 marriages is a under-representation of failed marriages.

RIGHT NOW!!!

He's stroking Tiger and Tiger tried to chew his hand!!


HAHAHA!!!

Woke up this morning and grabbed today's papers for a dump. First glance at the front page of HOME...
This picture caught my eyes.


Immediate thoughts in a flash were as follows:

1. This is a family.
2. Some injustice must have been done to them.
3. Probably a scam, or some irresponsible/greedy/evil local/foreign establishment, e.g. housing developer, govt body, retailer, kindergarten etc...
4. Or stepped into foreign land and kena robbed, conned etc...
   

Then... Eyes shifted a little to the left to read the headlines....



Seriously, what's the point of mentioning that this lady is in her 3rd month of pregnancy?
As if the monkey can tell the difference before deciding whether to snatch food from her?!
Some human beings do not even give up their seats in the MRT for pregnant, older (in general, physically weaker) people, so why are we suggesting that the monkeys are no good for snatching food from a pregnant lady with a toddler?

I agree with the message of the article though.
I strongly believe that the public shouldn't feed stray animals.

Though I adore cats, I have, over the years, refrained from feeding them, because while it gives one instant gratification to feed that sweet little skinny kitty (because it is so cute to watch it eat and/or one feels like a mini 1-minute saint for feeding a stray), the bigger picture is that one is pro-longing the suffering of these animals, having to survive urban conditions (which includes the occasional animal abuser).

If you really care about the kitty, bring it home and care for it for the rest of its life.
Even that... sometimes... I wonder whether it is cruel.

Along the same vein, do not feed the monkeys either.
I dunno if one can keep a monkey at home (coz I'd love to), but I think it's not allowed.

Oh... And I read on some govt website that cats are nomadic and so cannot be kept in HDB flats.
FWAH... There are so many assumptions here...
I shall only tackle the most obvious... least politically-sensitive, that is... Erm... Ok... And dogs are not nomadic?
What about human beings?

I think it will be a better argument to state something like 'stray animals are nomadic, whilst pedigree animals are not. Hence, one is allowed to keep up to x number of small-sized (to define 'small') pedigree animals (to define animal types) in HDB flats'.
And of course, license the damn pets, please, because as of now, I can easily buy a hamster for my cats to 'play' with.


Regardless...
I still do not understand how the Monkey article got onto the cover of HOME section, when there are other more 'deserving' articles in the same section but pages later.
E.g. the articles on 'Some concerns raised about grading system' and 'More help for Teachers to upgrade themselves' on Page 10 of the Home Section.

Random Question pops into my head...

• Singlish - Auntie (AHHHNNNN... TEEE...!!)
• Chinese - 大婶 (Who uses this in the local context anyway?)
• Malay - Mak Cik (This is my #2 favourite. I like the way 'Cik' emerges from the mouth in a short burst.)
• Tamil - ??

• Japanese - Obasan (This is my #1 favourite. It sounds very 'round' and plump.)
• Korean - Ajumma (*Contributed by meow)
  
• Thai - ??
• Vietnamese - ??
  
• Spanish - ??
• Russian - ??
• English - Madam (*yawn*)

'Good Fren' and I picked up Mooiness from Robert's place at lunch time (okay... maybe quite a little after lunch time... =))) and headed for Holland Village.

Our way there, Mooiness asked if Holland Village was like Bangsar in KL, and we concluded that it was... Just smaller. Parking is just as shitty. =))

Somehow, we ended up having lunch at the Holland Village Market, then covered the entire grounds (includes going into Holland Village Shopping Centre).
We even waved to Jonathan who was working by the window of Next on the 2nd-floor. So cute!

All this must be pretty surreal for Mooiness. It's really a 'village', where people know one another?!

Then we headed for Novena Square 2 coz we wanted to bring Mooiness to try Bread Bar.
But not before a quick car tour of the all-new yuppie Dempsey Hill. The growth rate of Singapore's F&B + Entertainment industry is really quite jaw-dropping.

Finally, we got to Breadbar and bought some youtiaos + soya bean milk. Had a good chat with Daniel and were pretty entertained by the little girls.
It's really not easy running a business.
Something Daniel said struck me rather hard.


After that little heavy session, we sent Mooiness back so that everyone could rest and prepare for Christmas Eve, because Robert had booked a table at Bellini Room for the night.



Hmmm... I haven't been to Bellini for fun before.
(Was there earlier this year on a 'formal' walkabout in the day and brought around by Mr Europa. That was a different experience. No music. No alcohol. No dancing.)

When the lights are dimmed, the music pumps the mind, the body gyrates, and the alcohol lubricates the soul... It's another experience altogether.
(Miss the nicotine and smoke though...)

Mooiness asked if St James was taking loads of business away from Zouk.

The instinctive answer was 'YES', but actually, I really can't say because I haven't been to Zouk/Velvet for months.
The last time I was there, it was filled with 'children'. Or at least... from my perspective lah... Coz I is aged mah! =))

I think St James and Velvet do compete for certain segments of the cheonging crowd. But in general, more people will be tempted to party coz of variety!

Here are Mooiness and Robert.
They are school buds. Malaysians who migrated to Australia.

Robert is now a 'foreign talent'. He has been working here for a year. And Robert happens to work with one of my exes who's getting married in Jan 08.
And guess what?
Robert gets a wedding invite and I don't!! =_=

I guess it's awkward to invite an ex to the wedding. Doesn't go with the theme or something...
HO HO HO!! JUST JOKING!!!

Or am I?? Heh Heh Heh...
Noo Nee Noo Nee Noo!! =)))

Halfway through the drinks and loud music, 'Good Fren' turned around and purposefully asked whether I had gotten him a XMAS present.
I panicked for a while, and realised that he hadn't gotten me anything either!!
RRRRRRRRRROOOOOOOOOAAAAAAARRRRR!!!! =_=

And the grinning Mooiness next to us was throwing in statements like,"No spa packages?!"


This is our 3rd XMAS together.
Quite fast hor?! =)))



See Mooiness' entry here.

He's back!! After 1 year!!

This time round, he's not staying with us, but with his friend who has just joined our pool of foreign talents for 1 year.

Because we thought Mooiness was arriving on Fri afternoon, we called him at 10pm to check on his supper plans.
That's when we realised that he was at Changi T2 and would be taking a train to his friend's flat in Commonwealth.

So, it's 小白 to the rescue!
And being good Singaporean hosts, we had to feed our Australian guest, so we brought him to the Taiwanese Porridge place at Oasis.

Mmmmmm... It's quite sad to know that Oasis is gonna disappear with the appearance of the Sports Hub. =_=

I was looking at the earlier entries of Mooiness' visits to Singapore. Has it been 2 years since we've met in the flesh?!!

Sigh... Much has happened in 2 years...

'Good Fren' and I caught Warlords at the Cathay yesterday.
We like to catch our movies at the Cathay these days. We think the entire retail complex is underrated.

Also... We also read that a couple of ang moh pai movie critics have aired negative reviews of this film.
Whoever gave this film a lousy rating either didn't watch the film and/or didn't manage to comprehend it.
Because we thought it was quite a good one.

And it is good not because there were so many expansive/expensive war scenes that it looked like a Hollywood film.
But because in this film, the characters are not the usual no-brainer one-dimensional good-lookers at all.

It's really not too cool, but extremely lame, to draw a parallel between these 3 brothers and Alvin & the Chipmunks.
It's not even tongue-in-cheek. =_=

Take Jet Li's character for example.
This general has just lost his entire army of more than 1,000 people after a battle which lasted 3 days 3 nights, while another (friendly) army watched and refused to give a hand.
That's pretty sombre and sobering, dun you think?
It doesn't mean he MUST become a power hungry, brother-forsaking and lusty bastard afterwards!!

It means he needs a reason to stay alive.
A reason bigger than himself!
How difficult is that to comprehend?

And of course...
The most alluring bit of this story is that no matter how fucking hard you try, sometimes you are just not privileged enough to achieve much in life, because the privileged will not allow it.

穷，就是最大的无奈.

今时今日的穷，不一定是铜臭熏天的.

Watch the trailer...




And the making of...


Did I mention that I love Jet Li?
Oh yes I did... =)))

Isn't he simply amazing?
His moves are fantastic... and guess what?
HE CAN ACT TOO!!

And may I ask why Kaneshiro doesn't seem to age?!
(The head raising scene was a little awkward... And a couple of other rather hollywood-ish emo scenes... )

It's just strange to sweeten Chinese Tea.
甘甜 is not sweet.

Someone dropped me a message on Facebook and asked (in relation to the earlier entry) what I would do if 'Good Fren' had another partner.

*pause*

The instinctive answer to give is:


Then I realise that instinctive answers are not really answers because these are merely 'suggestions by encounter'.
This means... For the lack of experience, one does not know how to react to any given situation.
Hence one may simply (1) react to the situation by following the last personal reaction to a somewhat similar situation, or (2) follow a pattern/formula which one has witnessed elsewhere, i.e. vicarious experience.

A big factor contributing to (2) is the Mass Media.

You see and remember dramatic moments on TV, on print, (now probably from the Internet) etc, where the wife strikes out at the husband and/or the other woman, usually with her gang of cronies.
Scratching and scolding... Husband whimpering etc...
Wife eventually crying alone in the empty home.

These moments are so real to us because we have no better idea to an alternative ending.
Why?
Because other kinds of endings are not dramatic, and/or simply not newsworthy enough to be packaged and delivered for your consumption.
Hence, in the process, the audience gets socialised into thinking that this MUST BE how one is supposed to react in such situations.

Real life, I'm afraid, is more complicated than that.
Not because people are smarter, and can think on their own. But more because people usually cannot emulate to a tee due to inabilities and/or laziness.

So... Back to the earlier question. What would I do?

Apart from 'killing 'Good Fren''?
The answer is "I dunno."

Serious!
There have been many situations in life of which I had imagined all sorts of reactions to, but they never really did turn out in those ways.
So, I really dunno.

How about he try lah hor?!!
Then you will know the answer... =)))

'Good Fren' and I were having a discussion about how some people are never satisfied with just 1 partner.

And 'Good Fren' came up with a rather apt analogy for these males.

He said it's like while one could only afford a Toyota Altius and because it's not enough, every once in a while, one would rent a Maserati for kicks.
Then while the resources (energy, money... or just the kicks) run out, one would sulkily or sheepishly go back to the Toyota Altius...
Till one can afford another round... Coz one believes he deserves the variety... And if he can get away with it, he has earned it.

I then added...

And sometimes... one would rent (steal) a cheap scooter/trishaw for kicks... Or call it 'esoteric' when one cannot really afford anything else.
And probably feel better if one didn't have to pay for it.

For those who desire but do not act on their desires, they take pics at car shows.

Meanwhile, the Toyota Altius wins the Best Car of the Year award and feels that there is meaning in her existence by ferrying important cargo such as children, parents, groceries etc around everyday in the most busy fashion and/or zhnging herself so that others will turn heads and/or take pics with/of her as she zips around on the roads and/or park in public lots.

(Fundamentally, most people choose to be Toyota Altiuses, because it is the safe choice. Higher resale value. Bigger market.
Some may try to differentiate themselves by choosing a different colour and/or adding some spoilers and try to look like a European car...)

Are you the Vehicle or the Driver?
Is there even a 'better'?

I thought I was mad...

Su Ling is just absolutely CRAZY!!!
You'd never guess what she sent me!!!!!!
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She managed to put Tiger in her baby pouch carrier!!!


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She squeezed 'Good Fren' in it too!!





Anyway...
Big Thank You to those who have ordered from Su Ling after reading my blog!!

Just in case you forget...

Remember the voucher code for 15% Discount?
ZTSL02
It's valid till end Jan 2008.

www.pupsikstudio.com

'Good Fren' and I cleaned up the apartment on this cool Saturday morning, then made our way to Novena Square 2 basement to check out a former Raffles Hall mate's new business, called


The shop, at the basement of Novena Square 2 when you get out of the MRT gantry, is merely 1 week old.
Many well-wishing flower arrangements lined along the corridor.


Check out this one from his Daddy and Mummy!!!
So SCHWEEEEEEET!!!!!


It's really quite weird to watch Daniel Hui fiddle with flour and food. I mean... Afterall... I only remember him as:

1. ASEAN scholar from Malaysia
   
2. NUS Mechanical Engine Student
3. Raffles Hall Badminton Team
   
4. Raffles Hall Sepak Tekraw Team
   

Look at this... It's almost... GENTLE?!!

Daniel is... COOKING?!!

So what exactly is Daniel and his business partner, Tee Hau, selling to the public?


油条!! Or fried dough sticks!!!

HUH?!!
What's so great about Bread Bar's fried dough sticks, you may ask...
I asked that question too...

Have you ever had your dough sticks come in 6 different flavours?!

Imagine the fragrance of fried dough + onion?!!

Or have your fried dough sticks with dips like kaya, mango, sweet wasabe etc?


Or have your fried dough sticks wrapped in a thin film of fried eggs, squashed together with a slice of juicy otah, satay or tuna?

'Good Fren' and I were skeptical initially, but were totally convinced after biting into everything.
Totally YUMMY!! Super CRISPY!!
*handmade leh...*

I kept saying,"It tastes like Malaysia!!!"
(Coz Daniel is from Ipoh and Tee Hau is from Johore Bahru!)

Apparently, Daniel Hui took French language lessons for 3 years, but still can't converse properly... HO HO HO...
And it happened that his french class mates turned up to show support!


Here are the 2 young bosses with their part-time staff whom they have found by placing an ad on mocca.com?!!

The girls are so cute!!
16 years old only... From Zhenghua Sec School... Read the ad off mocca.com and decided to give it a try!!

They are such good friends that they bought this set of mugs to drink from at work!!

KAWAII!!!!!

I made a short video of my experience at Bread Bar.
It even comes with an informal interview with Daniel...
Really genuine and cute.
Somehow... I wanted to cry while putting the video together...

Daniel told us that during the inception stage, he would go to other fried dough sticks stalls and stand there for 3 hours to observe the operation, the sales, the customers etc.

I think it's fucking cool that Daniel and Tee Hau (former engineers and colleagues) have taken the leap to try something.
Perhaps if you have seen what I have... You will know that in contrast to people who sit around and whine, Daniel and Tee Hau's spirit is priceless.

'Good Fren' and I bought 2 x all 6 flavours to pass to his friends for sampling.
(Coz 'Good Fren' is going for a wedding dinner tonight... Just right for 'distribution' with Bread Bar's namecards!! =))))


BREAD BAR
Novena Square 2 #B1-119
Get out from Novena MRT as if you were going towards Tan Tock Seng Hospital. There are a new cluster of retail shops at the basement.
Bread Bar is in-between Guardian Pharmacy and QB House.

Oi... Remember this pic from this earlier entry on 10 yr old Blinkymummy?

Well, the green arrow is pointing at me, but I like to talk about the girl under the green arrow today.

Her name is Su Ling.
And we were in St. Nicholas Girls' School together for 11 years. That's since pre-primary days... starting on 2 Jan 1981!
We were classmates for a while, and of course... Chinese Dance Society mates?!

In the early 1990s, we went to different junior colleges and subsequently, she went overseas for to pursue her architecture degree(s).
(Somehow, quite a few St. Nicks chicks are into design and stuff... Must be those flowers and craft back in school... Making us all aesthetic-sensitive... But it's weird how we dun really do stuff to ourselves, but concentrate on object aesthetics...)

Then in the early 2000s, about 11 years later, she joined me at work, till I left in mid-2000s.

We were never super close, but there seems to be some weird thread hanging between us.
Perhaps... it's called nostalgia. I dunno.

And recently... Su Ling has set up her own online store called
She also has a Pupsik Studio Blog which I have linked up earlier. In fact, I think she has 3 blogs... 1 for Pupsik, 1 for her design stuff, and 1 with her Russian husband for God.
That's a lot of maintenance and sustenance work!!

If I remember correctly, 'Pupsik' means 'Baby Doll' in Russian... or something like that...

Anyway, remember how my cousin and cousin-in-law got married at Tioman?

Su Ling read that entry, saw and liked their wedding pics by Shutterbug. So, she got in touch with him to do a photoshoot for her online merchandise.
(And that's Su Ling, all grown-up, with her beautiful little girl, Vera!)

Yesh... She develops and sells baby pouch carriers and nursing covers on her online store!

You got to give it to her...
She manages to mesh everything she fancies (design, baby, project etc) into 1 enterprise, and in a relatively short time... I think about 1 year?

Ok, on Baby Pouch Carriers and Nursing Covers...

Erm... I dun have human babies (actually I do... But he's too big for these products... Ok... Dun be gross... =_=)
Soooo... I can't test the products on your behalf, but I think baby pouch carriers are analogous to those sarong baby things that moves up and down.
Something about being wrapped up in fabric is comfortable.
Maybe it's like being back in the womb?

I like this strippy one! It's funky!
Can buy different colours/designs to match with clothes and moods!! It's like... yet another handbag?!!

And it is very safe too... Su Ling actually had the pouch safety tested by a professional body. It is held together with very strong thread and stitching and can support weights up to 20kg.

I would like to see MEN with the pouch!
That's so macho!! OOOooohhhh... I'm not joking...
I like to see MEN with small babies...
*here's the link to check out Su Ling's husband wearing the pouch!!*

Btw, that's Vera, Su Ling's baby, in the pic above... But that's not Su Ling...

Oh... And because you read about Pupsik Studio off Blinkymummy's blog, you can get a 15% Discount by entering this voucher code "ZTSL02" at the online checkout!

AND... Shipping is FREE OF CHARGE!!

So... Since it's XMAS and all...
You can start ordering some for your friends/family/colleagues etc... who are overseas!!

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i met up with someone who offered me a job tonight.
it's really quite bizarre.

he kept saying it's surreal.
i think it IS surreal too.

then after i got home, someone on msn said something enough more out of this world than aliens loving laksa!

He said...


I shan't explain it.
I can't.
It's just too bizarre!!!

What the...

I had lunch with 3 other colleagues today.
You see...
We were all from the Public Service, and now working for the first time in the Private Sector and in the same organisation.
Obviously, we feel the difference between the 2 sectors and like to share our thoughts with another who is emphatic.

So we made a little pact.
That we would have lunch every Wednesday.
And today is Wednesday! =))

Anyway, we were walking in 2 pairs (one behind the other) in the Raffles Place MRT station retail area. Ric (male) and PL (female) were in front of Nic (male) and me.
This store/push cart lady, who was peddling some WONDER BRA/GADGET was giving out pamphlets, saw the front pair and didn't do anything.

But when it was Nic's and my turn to pass her,



Then Nic kept laughing at me when I told him about it.

RRRRRRROOOOOOOOOAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRR!!!!!

For all Gen X folks out there... Remember the Lilac Saints back when we were teenagers?
This local band was really quite hot back then...

Under certain circumstances (which I would rather not talk about now), I got to know 3 out of 5 of them almost 10 years later in the new millennium.
And I realised that they were from Victoria School + Arrow Scouts.

ARROW SCOUTS leh!!

I remember this particular scout leader from VS my year... very cute... in the early 90s type of way...
In the early 1990s, a couple of SNGS guides went to VS to borrow the torches from Arrow Scouts. This troop leader opened the den door under the spectator stand. I remember his large eyes.
=)))

I digress...

After a lengthy hiatus, the Lilac Saints have decided to come out of corporate hibernation and embark on a charity project this Christmas. Together with a few people from the local music scene (e.g. the Mee Pok Man aka Joe Ng, Shirlyn Tan, Joanna Dong etc), the Lilac Saints wrote and recorded a CD single "Give Me Love On Xmas Day" for XMAS 2007.

The Lilac Saints paid for the production of this single, which is on sale at around SGD10 from this Wednesday 12 Dec 07 at all HMV and Gramophone stores.

All proceeds from the sale of the CD single will be donated to The Lilac Saints’ adopted choice of charity, Boy’s Town.


You need to listen to this sample of the new single!!!
It's Christmassy Melancholia.



You see... It's a really catchy song...
I hope Cruz will play this over the radio. =))

But most importantly, I am amazed by the number of people I know who are involved in this single.
3 out of 5 from Lilac Saints + Shirlyn + Joanna Dong.

I always thought it was very brave to pursue one's dream, especially 'lofty' dreams such as music in the Singaporean context.
And judging my record, I fancy music people. Soft spot.

Now that The Lilac Saints are all grown up, and pursuing their respective careers in real estate, travel, events, journalism etc, it's really precious that they have gotten back once again to create something for charity.




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Give Me Love On Xmas Day ~ The Lilac Saints

I don't need a new tattoo
I don't need a red guitar or two
Give me love give me love give me love on Christmas day

Don't need another pair of socks
Wrapped up in a little box from you
Give me love give me love give me love on Christmas day

And I'm singing along, thinking of you, making a song
And you're spinning away, making me feel I'll love you always

I don't need a new duvet
Don't wanna go to caberets with you
Give me love give me love give me love on Christmas day

I don't need a new shampoo
Lots of girls can buy me things not you
Give me love give me love give me love on Christmas day

And I'm singing along, thinking of you, making a song
And you're spinning away, making me feel I'll love you always
And you, looking at me, watching the trees, sway in the breeze
And me, looking at you, sing the blues, don't you know I'm all for you?

Ditch the brand new diamond clock
I just want a cardboard box with you
Give me love give me love give me love on Christmas day

Throw away the new neck tie
Happy times won't make me fly, just you
Give me love give me love give me love on Christmas day

Give me love give me love give me love on Christmas day
Give me love give me love give me love on Christmas day
Give me love give me love give me love on ... Christmas day yeah..

The Lilac Saints on MySpace
The Lilac Saints on Facebook

The other day, while cutting my hair, Jonathan introduced me to a new term which can be used in the following manner...


I was like... HUH??



And 'Good Fren' got it immediately...

I is far from being Ah Beng and/or corny... =_=

Emily is back from the Netherlands.
And once again... She bought me something which resembled my wall paper.


Ohhhh.... YUPPIE TEA!!!

It's really rather luxurious, can?!!
The tea bags are made of sheer shiny fabric, not paper!!

Can't wait for Emily to come over for tea!!
WOO HOOO!!!

'Rituals' is a brand of lifestyle products on sale in Europe.
From face to body to kitchen...
I like the term 'Rituals'.
Everyone needs rituals.
It brings order, harmony and comfort in the everyday life.

Maybe hor... You ought to be a buyer for a large departmental store like Tangs or something.

Sometimes I wonder how people can bring themselves to be rude. I'm sure we all have many stories to tell.

Snide remarks are in essence rather pathetic expressions of one's displeasure with another.

I'm sure that if one really has a point, one can always say it plainly. Passing sarcastic remarks is merely an act of insecurity, i.e. A dislikes B, and it's purely based on irrational jealousy.
Hence, A is unable to make any honest and concrete point about B. Yet at the same time, A needs to 'give it to B' to regain some sort of internal balance.

So what does A do?
Sometimes A will fabricate stories and say them behind B's back. Other times, A will pass sarcastic remarks to B.
Which is the better of 2 evils?
What goes through A's mind when saying it... I shudder to imagine... It's like A exists in a universe which shuts out all logical conclusions. Incapable of any sound thinking.

Makes me wanna laugh at how unhappy some people are, especially when they proclaimed themselves as 'successful' by definition of wealth accumulation and/or being married to a spouse of success.
Still, they feel the need to pass snide remarks because they are still unhappy.

Seriously... It doesn't take much to be nice. We are not talking about Mother Theresa here.
I mean... If you are nice to someone to begin with, but the mad dog still decides to chew on you all the same, then fuck it.

But in general, why can't the default position be 'BE NICE FIRST'?

Spot the Cat...


Meow Meow!! Where are you?!


You are Black against the patterns of Life.


I love your worried expression. It melts my heart.


And your lovely eyes...



Hey... Handsome...


Showing off your lines?


Two backsides...


Happy Tail!


Guess what?!! It's Christmas again!!

And Tiger wants the Corn Chocolate!!

Saturday is Maintenance Day.

1. 10am - Woke up + Nuahed in bed a little
2. 10.30am - Threw laundry in washing machine
3. 10.35am - Vacuum and mop the apartment
4. 11.45am - Panic coz facial appointment is at 12pm
5. 12.20pm - Facial
6. 2.00pm - Off to Holland V for lunch and haircut
7. 2.15pm - At Holland V. Had Pho for lunch.
8. 3.00pm - Had tea + coffee
9. 3.30pm - Haircut with Jonathan. (He tells me a couple of you has been cheeky with him!! Naughty Naughty!! He's a busy man... Dun bully him coz he's friendly, ok!! =))
   
10. 5.20pm - Got home... Nuahed a little
11. 7.00pm - Made our way to the Cathay
12. 7.30pm - Watched Lust, Caution
13. 10.00pm - Bought beancurd milk and other related stuff
14. 10.30pm - Watched a little of Takashi Sorimachi's HOTMAN
15. I think we slept at 1am.

So... The someone... who left a comment last saying that she saw me at the Cathay... is correct...
I think I saw you looking at me... =))

Anyway... I wanna talk about Lust, Caution.




The movie had many cringe-worthy moments, and I realise that they were mostly when Wong Lee Hom appeared.
He's cute and all, but he cannot act...
He couldn't look pathetic/selfish enough when he had to sacrifice his chick for his country.

To make things worse...

His slurring accent (+ looks) makes him an ACS boy trying to (A) speak Mandarin and (B) engage in revolution in bid to save China from the World.
Just think about the irony of that. *hair all standing*


He's better off doing this... HOT HOT HOT... this way...

Maybe if he had stripped in the movie, it would have made up for his lousy acting...

*with a straight face* I think his role of Kuang Yumin ought to have gone to some upcoming hot-blooded Chinese star who has never touched western soil.

Of course... This is the first time I have ever seen so much of this brilliant man... =O
Some more with 'Good Fren' sitting beside me... HO HO HO...

Somehow... The idea of a powerful, lonely and pensive spymaster intrigues on a somewhat tingling level.
Makes me wonder whether his connection with the young Mrs Mak was purely due to loneliness, or her ability to understand and pay unfettered attention to him.
Probably both... We are all vulnerable...



And her (super)ability to do so is because she is an unwanted individual. She has nothing to lose.
No family... No love (Kuang Yumin is a loser)...
She was depressed and her mission kept her alive... Gave her meaning to be the best of herself.
At least... She could tell herself that she was good at something.

Any good story has got to be sickening.
The man, i.e. the target, has got to be the only person who seems to care about her.
*the cinema went 'WAAAAAAHHH' when Mr Khalid Said ud-Din flashed the bling at the camera.*

And for Mr Yee, there is just so much at stake which he cannot just ignore. He had to sign against her.
This filing, instructing and signing just seem so familiar.
Contrast this to the violent sexual intercourse earlier.

RRRRRRRRRROOOOOOOOOAAARRRRRRRRRRR!!!
The plot is definitely sickening.
And leaves one feeling really empty. =_=

Not sad... But just empty...

It's so hollowing that I didn't want to spoil the moment by screaming at a couple of crass middle-age women sitting behind us.
One of them keep passing 2 or 3-word comments whenever something comes on the screen, and especially during the nude scenes. I reckon she felt uncomfortable and didn't know how else to deal with it.
She also did the 'tsk tsk tsk' thing a lot.
The other would just acknowledge.

KNN...

Now you really understand why Mr Yee had to book the entire fucking section of the Japanese restaurant.
It's somewhat analogous to why some people have to buy pirated movies...

BECAUSE...

1. Pirates are in the market earlier than the originals.
2. One doesn't have to watch the movie with idiots and/or children at home.

Neither do I buy pirates nor have patience to wait...
Hence I suffer a lower quality of enjoyment.

KNN...

One would think that an (RA) film would limit the no. of children sharing the movie.
One is so damn wrong to make that kind of assumption.

I dun think I wanna stuff Blinky and Tiger after they are gone.
That'll make the missing worse, dun you think?

Related thought...
Is it illegal to stuff dead human beings and keep them at home?

Like keep your favourite dead child, partner, grandmother etc sitting at home... always watching TV or standing by the window?